Breaking Free: Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs to Unleash Your Potential

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Many of us have experienced moments when we’ve held back, hesitated, or shied away from certain actions or conversations we know we need to have.

"Remember you have been criticising yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens." – Louise Hay

Each of us, at various moments, have hesitated to step forward, undertake vital conversations, or embrace productivity-enhancing methods. These hesitations keep us from realising our true capabilities. The root of such resistance often lies in our inner dialogue. We question our worth, our intelligence, or our methodologies, resulting in inaction.

These negative internal dialogues, known as self-limiting beliefs, arise from past experiences. Over time, they become deeply embedded, making us accept them as our reality, even when they're unfounded. Such beliefs aren't exclusive to any particular person; even accomplished leaders face them.

Navigating these self-imposed boundaries involves a two-step process:

Recognition: Whenever doubt surfaces, name it. Identify it as a self-limiting belief. For instance, if avoiding a tough conversation due to feeling ill-equipped, label that feeling for what it is.
Reframe: Challenge these beliefs. Ask yourself if such a thought is genuinely accurate. By querying, 'How would I function without this belief?', you realise that without it, liberation is possible.

Our self-limiting beliefs often stem from early experiences, societal norms, cultural conditioning, and recurring negative self-assessments. As they get reinforced through repetition, they establish themselves as our "truths," despite being detrimental. Designed initially as defence mechanisms against possible failures or rejections, they ironically restrict our growth.

Common self-limiting beliefs include feelings of inadequacy, expected failures, and doubts about deserving success. In leadership, these beliefs can hamper a leader's capacity and impede team performance. But, breaking free from these beliefs can lead to substantial personal and team growth, marked by improved confidence, decision-making, communication, motivation, and resilience. By transforming these self-limiting beliefs, leaders can truly harness their unparalleled potential.

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Imagine someone with all the right skills and knowledge. What's that little extra they need to focus on? It's simple things: building relationships, listening to feedback, really getting to know others, and showing they care. These small actions make a big difference in being a great leader.

These observations inspired my research and became the driving force behind my new book.